what fred said

On January 28, 2004, my father-in-law Fred Blahut died of COPD, and not a day goes by when I am not reminded of him. I first met Fred in late 1985, when I started dating his daughter Joni. Shortly after we announced our engagement, Fred lamented to me: Joni’s the Continue reading what fred said

i forget

I wrote the following piece in 2008, 9 years after my daughter was born with arthrogryposis multiplex congenita (AMC).  I am bringing it back because June 30 is Arthrogryposis Awareness Day.  A weird thing has happened to me.  I have seemingly forgotten that one of my children has a disability. If you’ve Continue reading i forget

lucky

I wrote the following piece in 2000, the year after my daughter was born, as a “Letter from the Editor” for a newsletter I worked on at the time.  The photos, except for the last one, are from that year, too.  When I started kentonkilgore.com in 2006, I put this piece on the Continue reading lucky